I know so many healers that are incredibly gifted, have wonderful voices, play wonderful instruments, but have a hard time in actually taking the steps to turn that into something that other people can listen to, aka a ‚song‘.
Very often, there is a fear underneath projected towards technology, ‚I am just not techy‘. Sometimes they use the lack of time to excuse themselves, ‚I am just too busy for this‘ or they believe ‚I can’t make money with this‘. Others say they are not musical enough and don’t have enough skills. Or that they don’t have the right equipment to record and create.
But let me be very honest with you, I think it’s not any of these things that are actually stopping you. Nowadays it’s easier than ever to create music. 20 years ago you had to book a studio for thousands of euros that would be paid by a label you first had to have the luck to find. Now you can just download a free trial of Ableton, get Claude to help you set it up, record your voice with your phone, put it into Ableton, add a little spaciousness effect, hit export and you’re done with a file you can actually send someone.
But what is it that is actually between you and this file that you can send out? Why are we hiding for so long? Why are we always finding excuses?
In most cases it’s an outdated set of limiting beliefs. Not any of these technology or things in the external world are actually stopping you from doing it. In most cases it’s merely you telling yourself, I can’t do this so I won’t. I am afraid of sharing my voice, sharing what I have in my soul. I am afraid of levelling up, reaching more people, receiving more money. Whatever it is for you, I GET YOU. I have been there, my clients have been there, I still find these beliefs in my mind, my clients still find these in their mind, but what is it that makes me or my clients still sharing our songs?
We know that we are scared, we still don’t know really what we are doing, why we are doing it, but we show up. And that doesn’t mean that we have to fight ourselves, run into burnout, totally neglect that part that is scared. No, we are sitting with this part, we are sending this part compassion and love, but at the same time we know that this part doesn’t serve us anymore. It has served us in the past, it wanted to protect us, make sure that we are not doing things we are not ready for. That is okay, but it is also okay to just create, to share, to learn, to show up every day a little bit. Even if it’s just a minute of meditating longer. It can even be that you’re just a little more compassionate with yourself today.
I know, real life very often throws things at us. Things we can’t control, things that throw us off balance. That has always been and will always be the case not matter at which level you are. That’s the nature of life. But what you can control is how you react to that.
Whether you give in to the fear, to the repeating talk in your mind or whether you step out of it.
And I think that makes the difference that my clients do compared to people that don’t share their songs. If you don’t create while knowing that you should create. If you don’t share your music, your divine gifts that have been given to you for a purpose. If you hide them and if you excuse yourself because of them, you are not living on your highest purpose. And you know that. There’s this nagging feeling that you’re not doing it. This is your soul speaking to you, your higher self speaking to you. This future version that finally wants you to step into it, to finally LIVE IT.
I know, doing that alone is very challenging and very scary. Most people push it away, pretending they don’t have a life’s purpose. They need to keep working in their old job that doesn’t serve them, because they HAVE TO.
I’m not saying that to provoke this feeling that I myself am not there anymore, that I don’t have these thoughts. I do and I always had them. Every fucking single day. But when you have the right people around you, when you have people that see you in your highest version, when they are trying to help you understand that you already have everything you need to live on your highest purpose. This is where you can create change. You see it more clearly. You can determine which voice you’re listening to or not. You determine which actions you take, whether you create or not.
I understand this more clearly with every coaching call that I have with my clients. This is what makes my clients actually go and create the music they are meant to bring into this world and not hiding anymore. Because they have someone mirroring them back, telling them honestly what is actually going on and what to do about it.
That’s what makes a mentoring different from a course. With a course it’s very easy to escape back into normal life. With a mentoring the stakes are higher. You invest more, I can give you more of my presence and my truth.
We sit together, in your discomfort, in your fear, in your uncertainty. The fact that we are doing this together as human beings sharing a connection with each other, means that we create the safety that makes it possible for you to actually move ahead.
